My Officiant Journey
Before becoming an officiant, I had a long and rewarding career in education as both a teacher and Vice Principal. Teaching shaped how I work more than anything else — learning how to listen carefully, explain things clearly, support people through moments that feel new, emotional, or uncertain and to remain calm if things don't go quite to plan!
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Most couples and families don’t always know exactly what they want when it comes to planning a ceremony — and that’s completely normal. My role is to create a calm, supportive space, ask the right questions, and help you find words that feel true to your experience.
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I’m not here to perform or follow a script. I’m here to understand you, to shape a ceremony that feels like it belongs to you, and to make the process feel steady and manageable along the way. I work gently, thoughtfully, and at your pace — whether you arrive with lots of ideas or none at all.
And by the time the day of your ceremony arrives, it should feel like you’re standing there with someone who knows you, not a stranger reading words.
My Training
Although formal training isn’t a requirement to be an officiant or life celebrant, it was important to me that I access training to be able to carry out the role to the absolute best of my ability so that my families and couples feel that they are in safe hands.
I trained with the International College of Professional Celebrants during an immersive residential programme, where I was guided by experienced celebrants across all aspects of the role — from creative writing and public speaking to supporting families, holding space with care, and leading meaningful rituals.
I remain an active member of the ICPC, which means ongoing learning, shared knowledge, and access to some of the best resources in the industry — all with the aim of offering thoughtful, well-held ceremonies.
Since moving to the USA, I have also become ordained with American Marriage Ministries (AMM), allowing me to legally officiate marriage ceremonies.
My Style
If I had to summarise my style as an officiant, I would say that I am warm, creative, inclusive, able to put people at ease, a great listener, a reassuring presence and someone who always wants to do their best by other people.​ I will go above and beyond to ensure that your ceremony it is authentic and holds you and your wishes at its heart.
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My family describe me as a perfectionist! Whilst they say it with a tinge of frustration (!) I am happy that I am as it means that every aspect of your ceremony will be planned with the greatest of detail and care. Only my best is good enough when it comes to being trusted to tell your stories of life and love! Choosing me as to take care of your ceremony really does mean that it will be in the most capable of hands, from start to finish.
My Loves!
My Family - My husband and I have been happily married for over 20 years. We have two gorgeous children, Caitlin and Matthew. They are my greatest achievement!
My home - it is my sanctuary and where I am most happy
Reading - a lot! Anything from classic novels to cheesy romance!
Coffee shops - I love lazy weekend mornings discovering new corners to have a good coffee.
Scotland - its dramatic landscape and big skies speak to my soul. My husband and I have a pact to retire there some day
Fall - my favorite season. The colors, the cosy nights with candles and the fire on, walking in the leaves....fabulous!
America - my new home as of July 2023! I love it here!
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